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About Vanessa Friend

Vanessa is a partner in the Family Law team, which she joined in April 2019 from a leading central London firm. Her practice encompasses all areas of family law, with a particular focus on the financial issues arising from relationship breakdown, pre-marital agreements and leave to remove children cases. She aims to reach a negotiated outcome where possible, but also recognises the importance of strategic litigation if the circumstances require it.

As a family law solicitor and mediator Vanessa encourages clients to carefully consider the best approach to their matter. Her particular experience includes:

  1. Pre-marital agreements for couples who expect to inherit or establish future wealth to those with assets in excess of £50 million.
  2. Leave to remove children matters. She has represented many parents on their successful applications to relocate permanently to another country with their children, including China, Germany and Australia.
  3. Divorce and the related financial issues from modest asset cases to high net-worth.
  4. Dealing with high value pensions on divorce, including NHS pensions.
  5. Separation agreements and cohabitation agreements to regulate the financial and living arrangements between couples.
  6. Private law children matters.
  7. Schedule 1 applications for financial provision for children of unmarried parents.

"Vanessa Friend is the stand out Partner in the team. She is exceptionally bright and knowledgeable . She secures fantastic results for her clients. She is a very good negotiator and very personable. Her Mediation skills also assist her with seeing the greater picture and arriving at fair settlements.” Legal 500, 2022

“provides excellent client care and [can] handle the intricate preparation needed.” Legal 500, 2021

Vanessa is recommended in Legal 500, 2021, 2019 and 2018 for her legal and mediation practice respectively.

She was awarded Family Law Associate of the Year (silver award) in the City Wealth Awards 2017.

Client Comments

  • Mediation “Vanessa showed very impressive mediation skills under difficult conditions. Eminently professional and pleasant to boot. Recommended.”
  • Separation agreement “Vanessa has been extremely helpful and explained every step of the process. It was a pleasure working with her. “
  • “You’ve been amazing Vanessa. I have already recommended you to two other friends going through the same!”
  • Financial proceedings on divorce “I would hand on heart recommend Vanessa to anyone who is looking for a solicitor to deal with family matters. Her professionalism, knowledge of law and negotiating skills are exceptional. Vanessa’s attention to detail far outweighs any solicitor I have ever encountered”
  • Divorce “Kind, considered and professional advice with a reasonable billing policy and a pro-active approach. I would definitely recommend the practice.”
  • Leave to remove “Thank you so much for your great support and everything you did for me. I am so grateful. I feel a bit sad about the fact that you won’t be around on my daily basis. Thank you again “
  • Mediation “Thank you for your mediation services. Happy to comment that I found your approach very professional.”
  • Prenuptial agreement “Great working with you on this.”

"My husband and I are getting divorced and needed help to agree the financial settlement. Relations and communications between us had become very difficult and strained so we attended mediation with Vanessa Friend. Always calm, clear and professional, Vanessa helped us to navigate and overcome the tensions between us and we were eventually able to reach agreement. Vanessa made what felt like an impossible situation feel manageable and I'm very grateful to her. Would highly recommend her services."

Memberships & Appointments

  • Resolution – an organisation for family lawyers committed to a non-adversarial approach. Vanessa sits on their Working Party for Litigants in Person.
  • Trustee for the West London Centre for Counselling.

Her professionalism, knowledge of law and negotiating skills are exceptional. Vanessa’s attention to detail far outweighs any solicitor I have ever encountered”

Articles & Publication

  • New Law Journal – The split: relocation & the child’s best interests

Career & Education


  • Partner at Hodge Jones & Allen – 2019 to present
  • Associate and Senior Associate at Hunters, Lincoln’s Inn – 2015 – 2019
  • Associate at May, May & Merrimans, Gray’s Inn – 2012 -2015
  • Trainee and Solicitor at Silverman Sherliker – 2007 – 2012


  • College of Law, London – Post Graduate Diploma in Law and Legal Practice Course (commendation and distinction)
  • University of Westminster – Broadcast Journalism MA (Hons)
  • University of Bristol – Politics and Philosophy BA (Hons)